I’m not sharing all this so you can feel sorry for me. I’m not sharing this to make you feel uncomfortable. I’m sharing this as I think it’s important to talk about the uncomfortable subjects in life. It’s important to talk about your losses, as well as your gains, to share your disappointments alongside your achievements, to stand up and go ‘this f***ing sucks’ without being told other people have it worse, or to be thankful for what you have, or any of the other cliches we tell people when we ask how they are without wanting an honest answer.
I vaguely recalled a particular story that she had told me once. Something about how the little people in the hills would steal a newborn born child from its mother and replace it with an old wrinkled gremlin-esque creature. They’d get the fairies to cast a spell upon, so it resembled the original child; but this creature wasn’t a child. It was old and grim.
As I am currently experiencing a ‘creative block’ I thought I would try to inspire myself by going through my older pieces of writing. The following was one of my first University submissions, written in 2013. The assignment was to write an alternative ‘myth’ so below is my take on the story of creation.
Once you have all your personal documents sparkling and ready to go you should feel confident to start sending off applications. I would always advise researching the company before you apply, 1) it gives you a stronger idea of whether it is something you actually want, and 2) you can add some of that research into your cover letter. Your application is the first thing your potential new employer is going to see, so you need to make it count! Remember you are going to competing against hundreds of other applicants.
When I first considered HR as a career path I did so because I strongly believed that people should feel valued, appreciated and safe within the workplace (see Why I chose HR?). This is still part of my core beliefs, but now I understand that HR needs to support the business, and in turn, the employees, to help improve company performance, encourage change and work to align the business goals with that of the employee. The good thing is these two beliefs go hand in hand. Afterall happier employees mean’s motivated employees. Higher motivation means higher performance, and that improved performance results in company growth.
Fanatic’s blamed humanity, claiming these tragedies were brought on by greed, wrath and pride. The logical blamed society, stating that centuries of abuse to our cultures and our planet had caused such unrest. The leaders blamed each other using accusations as a way to deflect from their own neglect.
Much like how you would not be expected to work in an environment where you run a high risk of being caused physical harm from poor health and safety practises, you should also not be expected to work in an environment where your mental health is at jeopardy.
have spent my entire life being exposed to the negative effects that poor mental health can have on both the individual and those around them. From seeing those close to me being admitted to hospital, supporting friends through panic attacks and self-harm relapses, and myself being on and off anti-depressants since I was 15, it has been near impossible for me to be unaware of the concept of mental illness. This is why when people disregard the need for mental health awareness it both baffles and infuriates me.
The crowd was being moved down the stairs into the great open hall where an ocean of greys was moving as one. Waves pulsating. Like a river joining the sea, she weaved through the grey shadows, desperately trying to keep her head above water as she fought the current towards the tunnel. She slipped into what she thought was a river but instead was caught up in the race of the rapids.
I made the difficult decision to make a major change and then proceeded to commit to that change for over a year. I dealt with rejection, failure and doubt, both self as well as from my peers. I had to push myself way out of my comfort zone. My experience taught me that no one should just ‘accept’ the situation they are in. If you don’t enjoy your job, look into why and do something about it, life is too short to be stuck doing something you don’t enjoy.